A local advisor for families navigating senior living

Silver Horizons Advisors is a local, one-on-one guide for families in Tulsa and Oklahoma City who are trying to make sense of senior living options. Instead of a national call center or a directory of ads, you talk directly with Tommy — a real person who listens first, then helps you narrow things down.

Meet Tommy Jacob

When you call Silver Horizons, you’re talking with Tommy — a local advisor who has walked with many families through the same questions you’re facing now. He understands how emotional, confusing, and time-sensitive these decisions can feel.

Why this work matters

Families often come to Tommy feeling guilty, exhausted, or worried they’re “failing” a parent by looking at senior living. He believes the opposite: that asking for help and exploring options is an act of love. His role is to slow things down, explain what’s available in plain English, and help you feel confident — not rushed — in your next step.

How we keep it free for families

Silver Horizons is always free for families. You never pay Tommy anything for his time or guidance. If — and only if — your loved one moves into a community that Tommy has introduced you to, that community may pay Silver Horizons a standard referral fee.

Free for families. We're paid by the community after a successful move-in.

Tommy Jacob

Local senior living advisor serving Tulsa & Oklahoma City.

Call (918) 706-7233

Prefer to start by email or text? Tommy is glad to move at your pace.

What families say

“Tommy took the time to really understand our mom and what mattered most to her. We never felt rushed, and we ended up with a community that feels like home.”

Adult daughter, Tulsa family

What Tommy will (and won't) do

What Tommy will do:

Listen to your family's story before suggesting any options.
Explain the differences between independent living, assisted living, and memory care in everyday language.
Help you narrow down a short list of communities that fit your budget, care needs, and preferences.
Coordinate tours and help you know what questions to ask when you visit.
Stay in touch as your situation changes or new questions come up.

What Tommy will not do:

Sell your information to dozens of communities.
Flood your phone or inbox with sales calls.
Push you toward a place that doesn’t feel right for your family.
Charge your family a fee for his help.
DisappeAR after a lease is signed — you can still reach out with questions.

Who we serve

Silver Horizons Advisors works with older adults and their families in the Tulsa and Oklahoma City areas who are exploring independent living, assisted living, or memory care. Some families are planning ahead; others are in the middle of a hospital stay or crisis. Wherever you are starting, Tommy meets you there.